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The Questionnaire: Table of Contents
Many couples wonder if the Relationship Checkup will address the issues occurring in their relationship. Here are the topics that are covered in the questionnaire.
Section 1: Assessment of Friendship and Intimacy
Relationship Satisfaction Scale
Assessment of Relationship Commitment
How well do you know your partner?
Fondness and Admiration
Turning Towards or Away
Romance in Your Relationship
The Quality of Your Sex Life
Frequency of Sex in Your Relationship
Do you Feel Lonely or Disengaged?
Section 2: The Detour Scales
Is your relationship chaotic?
Trust in Your Relationship
Commitment to the Relationship
Your Thoughts about Emotions
Section 3: The Conflict Scales
When You have Conflict
When Issues Come Up
Your Family History
Relatives and Extended Family
Emotional and Sexual Affairs
Basic Values and Goals
Housework and Childcare
Having Fun Together
Spirituality, Religion, Ethics
Difficulty with Perpetual Issues
Section 4: Shared Meaning
Rituals of Connection
Roles in Life
Section 5: Individual Areas of Concern
Drug and Alcohol Abuse
Frequency of Drug and Alcohol Use
Thoughts of Suicide
How Safe is Your Relationship?
Safety in Your Relationship
Degradation and Humiliation
Feelings and Thoughts
How You Think Others View You
Sadness and Depression
Anxiety and Panic
Do You Feel Angry?
Fears and Phobias
Do You Worry about What Others Think?
Waking in the morning
Death and Dying